AuthentiKated Christian Parenting

The How and Why We Give Consequences to Our Kids

Consequences. They're not fun, but oh so necessary when it comes to teaching, guiding and correcting our kids in love.
 
And today, I'm going to dive into exactly why we should be giving consequences (if it's not obvious already) to our kids, how we should do it and some examples of consequences you can give.
 
And if you want to grab my free guides to help you on your journey, see below!
 
YOUR ULTIMATE AGE-APPROPRIATE CONSEQUENCES GUIDE: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1a5xz8wPZ6ZzsalEeX8WW4GQVIWuQQo2TFhyhfeORXxY/edit?usp=drive_link
 
MY 3 SECRETS TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN EFFECTIVELY & IN LOVE GUIDE: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ixxPxTOARHENeFLesQ0w4-elwzWllIsFPoc1zOiJSfQ/edit?usp=drive_link

5 Truths of Motherhood

If you're a mom who's struggling with anxiety, overwhelm, frustration, or exhaustion and questioning how you're going to make it through from day to day, today's episode is exactly what you need to hear.In today's episode, I'll let you know that you've got exactly what it takes to do this motherhood thing and show up for your kids each and every day. You're not alone ...in fact, you're never alone, because God is always by your side, rooting for and equipping you with everything you need to be the mom you need to be for your kids._________________________________________________DISCIPLINE IN LOVE GUIDE ❤️ - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62a2345878fb7e7c5a8ef4cfAGE-APPROPRIATE CONSEQUENCE GUIDE ⚠️ - https://mindful-salad-53748.myflodesk.com/udwxn64pwi

How to Get Your Kids Out of the Comparison Trap

If you've struggled with your kids comparing themselves to other kids - what they have, what they wear, where they live, etc. - then today's episode is for you.In fact, today's episode is for you because as parents (and adults!) we can find ourselves struggling with the same things, meaning that we can tend to think, just as our children do, that the grass is greener on the other side.Well, today, friends, I'm talking about why that grass may not always be greener and how you can shift your mindset to be happy right where you are and, if you're not, what you can do about it.So, sit back, relax, and enjoy today's episode and please share with another parent or friend who could benefit!As always, if you're struggling with disciplining your children, grab my freebie, My 3 Secrets to Discipline Your Children Effectively and In Love, below!https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vRs_OczjhQ3j8NSLBdfVUlRt-fKpc0MNY7vBDOVk9Zg/edit?usp=drive_link

How We Can Sharpen Ourselves & Our Kids

You've heard the phrase "iron sharpens iron" and while that phrase indicates that the sharpening goes both ways, have you ever thought about what that could mean in the context of parenting?Have you ever considered that your kids can actually sharpen you while you're trying to do the same for them?If not (and even if so), this week I'm discussing exactly how we can do just that for our kids and allow them to do the same for us in return.Enjoy and please share with another parent you think could benefit from this episode!Struggling to discipline your kids? Then grab my FREE 3 Secrets to Discipline Your Children Effectively and In Love below!https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vRs_OczjhQ3j8NSLBdfVUlRt-fKpc0MNY7vBDOVk9Zg/edit?usp=drive_link

Our Job Isn’t to Make Our Children Happy

How did the title of today's episode make you feel?I can only imagine.Some of you probably are wondering if I've lost my mind or what kind of parent I actually am and some of you are probably nodding your heads because you know exactly what I'm talking about.But our job as parents is NOT to make our kids happy and if you listen to today's episode you'll find out why.If you're struggling to discipline your kids, then grab My 3 Secrets to Discipline Your Kids Effectively and In Love below!https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vRs_OczjhQ3j8NSLBdfVUlRt-fKpc0MNY7vBDOVk9Zg/edit?usp=drive_link

How to Get Your Baby to Sleep Through the Night

If you're a new Mama in the throes of trying to get your new, sweet little one to sleep through the night, this episode is for you.Today I'm speaking with Valerie Holm who's a Mama of two toddlers and Sleep Consultant. Valerie very vividly remembers the days of being a sleep-deprived, exhausted mom after giving birth to her first daughter, Emma and she shares her journey from being that frustrated, worn-out mom to being a mom on a mission who found the answers she was looking for, implemented what she learned, regained her confidence as a new parent and got her life back.Valerie will tell you exactly what she did as well as what works, what doesn't and what you can do starting today to get back to feeling like your old self so you can focus on bonding with your new baby and feeling like the rested Mama you want, and need, to be.Interested in working with Valerie?Find her on IG @valerie.sleep.consultant or restfulsolutions.com to learn more or to book a free consultation call with her. You can even grab her Newborn Sleep Guide and Perfect Bedtime Routine while you're there!If you have older kiddos and are struggling to discipline them, grab my FREE 3 Secrets to Discipline Your Children Effectively and In Love below!https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ixxPxTOARHENeFLesQ0w4-elwzWllIsFPoc1zOiJSfQ/edit?usp=drive_link

How to Take the Pressure Off, Stop Doing It All & Find Peace in Your Parenting

Are you done with the pressure of parenting?Are you tired of doing it all?Are you ready to find peace in your parenting?Then this episode is for you, my friend.Today I'm discussing the many ways we put pressure on ourselves as parents and how we can step back, take a look at what we're doing and the expectations we put on ourselves and start finding ways to trade the pressure for peace. You need it, you deserve it, and your kids deserve to have a parent who parents from a place of peace instead of stress and striving.So, wherever you are, take this episode to heart. I see you, I hear you, and I know how hard you're hustling for your kids to be the parent you want to be for them. But don't forget the importance of 'being' while you're in the midst of 'doing'.Loved this episode? Then please share with a friend who could use some encouragement!BONUS! If you're struggling to discipline your kids, grab My 3 Secrets to Discipline Your Children Effectively and In Love below!https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vRs_OczjhQ3j8NSLBdfVUlRt-fKpc0MNY7vBDOVk9Zg/edit?usp=drive_link

Getting to the Point: How to Quickly and Efficiently Talk to Your Kids and Still Get Your Message Across

I don't know about you, but when I was a houseparent, and now that I'm just parenting my own two girls (haha), discussions about behavior many times got, and gets, long-winded. Sometimes long conversations are necessary because you go deep.  Other times it can take longer than expected because other issues or questions came up that need to be answered and addressed. But all that aside, this week I'm going to teach you how to communicate effectively and efficiently with your children, especially when you need to discipline them. No one wants to sit there for an hour and drag the discussion out, especially our kids, however we, as parents, want to make sure that our point is made and our message is heard. I see your hand over there, so if you've got 8 minutes, take a listen and see what I'm talking about!

4 Ways to Help Your Child Manage Their Anger

Today's episode is one I published almost a year ago and that was so popular, I thought I'd publish it again.It's a short episode, but it's so practical and needed, by us and our kids.What am I talking about?Anger.It's not an emotion we love to experience as adults and it can be very confusing for our children to understand and manage, as well.Anger can be very hard to overcome without the tools needed to effectively manage and address it, so if your child is struggling to manage their anger, start teaching them the four skills I share with you today and watch things start to change for the better.And who knows, these skills may even be helpful to you when you experience anger flare up in you.Love this episode?I'd love and so appreciate it if you would please rate, review and share with another parent you think could benefit!BONUS!My 3 Secrets to Disciplining Your Children Effectively and In Love. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vRs_OczjhQ3j8NSLBdfVUlRt-fKpc0MNY7vBDOVk9Zg/edit?usp=drive_link

The 4 Basic Things Every Parent Should Be Doing When Their Kids Are Disrespectful

Short, simple and sweet. Basic.What am I talking about? I'm talking about the 4 things we should all be doing when our kids disrespect us. This that are helpful, not hurtful. Things that strengthen our relationship with our kids, not damage it.I get straight to the point in this one, friends, so if you've got 10 minutes, let's get to it.Want freebies? Grab 'em below!!My 3 Secrets to Discipline Your Children Effectively & in Lovehttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1vRs_OczjhQ3j8NSLBdfVUlRt-fKpc0MNY7vBDOVk9Zg/edit?usp=sharingYour Ultimate Age-Appropriate Consequence Guidehttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1a5xz8wPZ6ZzsalEeX8WW4GQVIWuQQo2TFhyhfeORXxY/edit?usp=drive_link